Have you ever tried to convince someone about something and
find that he or she just wasn’t interested in hearing what you had to say? Even
before you opened your mouth?
I’ve had this happen many a time with people on the
internet (forums, fb, or comment areas), with fellow employees (and bosses),
and, especially, with my parents.
When it comes to having one-on-one convos with people about
touchy subjects, hackles tend to get raised and nasty, prickly quills come out.
Touchy subjects include things like politics, philosophy, religion, and/or
football teams if you live in the South, etc. In these kinds of conversations, we need to
tread carefully…unless we’re interested in becoming human pin-cushions.
So how are we to go about communicating our opinions and
beliefs without getting our feelings
hurt (or hurting someone else’s)?
In this post, I’m
going to share 3 things that have helped me get past barriers and avoid those
dastardly porcupine quills.